Oct 4- it is another rainy quiet morning, but I ventured out on my own (with my phone of course) to the German Bakery around the corner. Everything looked so yummy, I wanted one of everything! I ended up with brown bread rolls, some chocolate croissants, and cinnamon pinwheels and went back to the flat. They were great especially with the plum jam Simon had shown me.
Wendy had some friends to meet so Simon brought me to where Sayoni lived. On the way there, a Nepali yelled out " Al's wife". It was Arjun, a friend from years ago who helped us in YWAM. I don't know how he recognized me, I had a raincoat and hood over my face because it was raining. T I informed him of Al's death and he had expected it after hearing he had cancer. Arjun has left YWAM,he got married and is working for a big company, in fact, next week he will be traveling to India. We might met up with each other after he returns.
Umesh met us at Apple Pie and took us to his flat to see the baby and Sayoni. It was so close to his work which is wonderful to have him close by. Sayoni looked well and Natasha was precious. I stayed with Sayoni for awhile catching up on what has happened to us during the last 4.5 years. She is breastfeeding, which was going well. She seemed a bit disappointed that she had to have a C-section but I told her the last 3 grandchildren I had were born C-sections.
In Nepali culture the woman can not leave her house for 4 weeks after having a baby. They also have to keep their head covered, keep bundled, and only eat rice. The baby also has to keep bundled. Both Sayoni and Natasha had a cough. The doctor said they both were fine and needed no medication.
I could not get over what a good husband Umesh was. He is doing all the housekeeping, cooking and laundry (even the diapers) plus work. I was surprised at how joyful he was to do it. I offered to help but they said it was all under control.
We discussed the HIV home and the project I had for them. She suggested I get with them and said that there was another program that might want to do it if the HIV home did not work out.
I left Sayoni's and went to the carpets district to look again for carpets. I found one I liked but again no matching door 2x3 carpet. I ordered pencils and pads from Umesh's brothers shop and a transformer for Wendy and Simon.
I did well for being out all day, it was almost dark when I got home. Wendy made homemade potato soup for dinner and I took a shower and went to bed.